What des it takes to change?
Change is not happening overnight. Although, overnight, your perspective or your life, values, and personality definitely can. Prepare yourself for the journey of transformation (btw it is an eternal process). As a humans, we always strive for perfection, but perfection is not a destination - it is an ongoing process and can not be achieved.
If you are still here and reading it you are already going further than 80% of the population. Just keep moving. Prepare your journal or notes, and take them as often as you can, because in the long run, when motivation fades, your vision that you will write down in your journal will determine the path you take: an upward spiral or a downward one.
Everything starts with an image of your perfect life… Take your time, and make a day off from everyone and everything. Turn off all the outside noise, such as phone calls, social media, friends, and even family. Do something that you like to do by yourself: go for a walk, rest on the beach, or conquer some summit during a hike. It doesn’t matter what to do - the matter is how. Be in your own space and have a clear intention to come up with a vision of your perfect life.
At the end of the day, you will come up with something. It might not be yet perfect for the rest of your life, but it will be a starting point - your lighthouse. Visualize it. Crisp and clear. From the moment you wake up (when, how, with whom), your morning routine, breakfast, etc. What are you doing for a living? Are you fulfilling yourself? Do you feel inspired, energized? If yes, let’s keep going. Now write it ll down in your journal. Again, do not underestimate this powerful practice. You will face difficulties (inevitable), hard mornings when you barely can get up. But having your perfect day written down will help you to remember why you doing it. And have faith: in process, in God, in yourself. Whatever you feel connected in the moment.
During this transformation period, some of the decorations could change in your perfect day. When it happens, revisualize and rewrite the whole new vision. The more you do it, the better you become in visualizing and manifesting of your desired outcome. Peace & Love. Art